As the last leaves fall and the air grows still, November invites a slower rhythm. It’s the calm before the holidays—a month meant for reflection, warmth, and comfort. This is the time to lean into quiet rituals, create space for gratitude, and enjoy the simple things that make home feel like sanctuary. Read on to discover easy ways to enjoy slow living in November.
1. Start a Gratitude Ritual
November and gratitude go hand in hand. Begin or end each day by writing down three small things you’re thankful for—a kind word, a warm meal, a moment of light. Keep a beautiful journal by your bed or kitchen table and let it become part of your daily rhythm.
Shop the Moment:
- Linen-bound gratitude journal– only takes a few minutes a day
- Gold-trimmed pens – smooth ink, soft colors, and a design that makes even quick notes feel intentional.
- Set the mood with this Rose & Oud scented candle
2. Host a Soup Night
When the air turns cold, invite a few friends over for soup and bread. Keep it simple and cozy—mismatched bowls, soft lighting, and good company. A soup swap or shared dinner can become a favorite late-fall ritual before the busy weeks ahead.
Shop the Moment:
- Cast iron Dutch oven– my tried and true
- Ceramic soup bowls
- The Soup Book: Over 700 Recipes by Louis P. De Gouy

3. Build a November Reading List
November is the perfect month to read slow, quiet books that match the season’s pace. Choose stories that feel comforting, nostalgic, or thoughtful. Make a small stack near your favorite chair, light a candle, and spend an afternoon reading without your phone nearby.
November Reading Picks:
- The Shell Seekers by Rosamunde Pilcher —This is a slow, atmospheric novel about family, art, and memory — the kind of book you sink into on a gray November afternoon.
- The Secret History by Donna Tartt — Set in Vermont during a crisp autumn, with intellectual, moody, and slightly dark undertones — perfect for November’s introspective vibe.
- 84, Charing Cross Road by Helene Hanff — A short, epistolary book of real letters between a writer and a London bookseller — warm, witty, and quietly emotional.
- A Place for Us by Fatima Farheen Mirza — A beautifully written, tender family story about belonging, forgiveness, and connection — very aligned with the gratitude and reflection themes of November.
- Still Life by Sarah Winman — Gentle, art-infused, and deeply human — spanning decades in postwar Italy. It captures warmth, community, and beauty in everyday life.
4. Enjoy a “No Plans” Weekend
Before the holiday rush, block off one quiet weekend to rest. Sleep in. Take long walks. Make breakfast slowly. Let your home stay a little messy and unhurried. You don’t need a plan to enjoy yourself—just time and presence.
Shop the Moment:
- I’ve been living in this lounge set
- Bamboo breakfast tray for lazy mornings
- Keep your toes toasty in these merino wool slouch socks
5. Bake Something Old-Fashioned
Bring warmth to the kitchen with a simple, nostalgic recipe. Try apple crisp, molasses cookies, or a loaf of cinnamon bread. It’s less about perfection and more about scent, sound, and memory—the crackle of the oven and the first bite of something homemade.
Shop the Moment:
- Dessert Person– Claire Saffitz’s recipes never disappoint
- I’m loving these mindfully designed ceramic pie pans
- This pinafore-style apron is a feminine twist on this kitchen must-have

6. Take a Twilight Walk
November light fades fast, but the late-afternoon glow is worth chasing. Wrap yourself in layers and head outside just before sunset. The air feels sharper now, but that’s part of its beauty—it reminds you to slow down and notice.
Shop the Moment:
- Upgrade your outerwear with this 100% cashmere scarf
- Ward off the chill with a heated vest
- My favorite all weather boots
Closing Thought
Slow living in November is about gentleness—choosing what matters, letting go of what doesn’t, and creating space for quiet joy. Savor these in-between days before winter fully arrives.
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- Romanticize October: Simple Ways to Savor the Season
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